Hi! I'd love some feedback on my response to this question
The issue is that my classmate has taken credit for my work within the context of a small university class that’s just started.
There are several considerations to take into account. The first is that my classmate is tired and flustered, and has been dealing with personal issues. Although it is inappropriate of her to take credit of my work, it is best to be compassionate in my response and assume that she perhaps slipped up in being tired, rather than jump to conclusions and assume that she’s trying to ‘impress the professor’, or let my emotions get the better of me and attack her for stealing my work.
The second consideration is the severity of the situation. The context of the situation is not an assessment that is weighted, but lecture readings - hence, the situation is not particularly serious. Although I would still speak to her about taking credit for other people’s work, this means it wouldn’t be particularly appropriate to escalate the situation beyond what’s needed, i.e. to the professor. The professor is settling in too - it’s best to let her focus on doing so and not cause any unnecessary burden on her.
The third consideration is that the course is small, hence it is important to handle the situation locally, discreetly, and at an appropriate time and place in order to prevent unnecessary rumors from spreading and best utilise the available resources.
The fourth consideration is that it is only the third day of class. With this in mind, it is preferable to resolve the situation in a peaceful manner in order to ensure a good working relationship with my classmate over the duration of the course.
Taking into account all of these considerations, I would approach the situation by catching her at the end of class and offering to buy her a coffee as she seemed to be tired. Assuming she accepts, over coffee I would ask if everything would be alright for next week’s readings and if she would like any help with them. I would ask if she followed along alright today, and kindly compliment her on making the effort to seek out a summary of the readings despite her ongoing personal issues that must be complicated. With that being said, I would gently tell her in a non-confrontational manner that I felt that she shouldn’t have repeated my summary as it wouldn’t be good academic practice. If she understands, I would ask that she not do so next time in the same manner. If not, I would explain to her the consequences of doing so in a formal assessment, as it would be dishonest and not acknowledge the source, then remind her as I would not make further discussion on the matter, as it is only the first time, she is dealing with personal issues and is tired, and it would not be advisable to escalate the situation further. As we finish our coffee, I would wrap up our conversation by kindly reiterating my offer of help for next week’s readings and wishing her the best for them.
If she declines coffee, I would repeat the same steps as I did over coffee, i.e. asking if everything would be alright for next week’s reading and the following steps.